The so call 'Happiness in my girlfrens marriage' nowdays.

I'm coming to the 30's club in few years time..

When viewed some of my frens's photos in FB,most of them is married with one or two kids.Lemme tell you how do i feel about that;I'm confused.

Why?Ok,first,how I envy them,having their spouses and babies all over-that's means lotsa loves lingering them.And the weekend is gonbe for sure fun;with all those family activities.And they seems to have the partner to share everything with;imagine after the hectic and disappointing day;you end up on the bed 'mengadu' everything while rubbing ur cheeks on his cest;having his arms around you..You knoww..all those kinna comfort they have there.Awww...

But then last week when I sat down for drinks with a couple of BFF who's married gave a shocking statement-

"Its not really like what u imagined,sweetie"

Oh my,really?For Serious?

Well,they said the guys tend to be lesser romantic;they often said they're tired and need more 'smoking out' or 'Teh Tarik'.The wifey also will be less cudly-and dont need hugs as much like last time as our body seems to need more space(esp on the bed)dueto all the stress @ work and running around chasing the kids plus the house chores.The sex also will be not that 'ra ra' anymore.They also claim the communications also is a lot more on practical needs only-not really those lovey-dovey anymore(what?!) if got also its always come with some reasons!

And how the tone of voice during arguments seems to be a lot different and the guys is no longer tolerating the wife's high pitch.They do not practise their 'console' skills anymore and tend to walk away most time.And the wifey will be more sensitive by the days and 'banyak makan hati' and frequently 'suka menyakitkan hati' also.

But nonetheless,they told me they're happy enugh.

And how they convince me that my Shakir is a wonderful guy(since they knew him forever) and we gonna have a wonderful marriage.

Hmm...

Am I ready for the bumpy ride?

Seriously not really tho I love him dearly.I don't really want to destroy this beautiful time I'm having with him.

I love this comfy smooth ride at the moment.

:)

Ok,gotta continue work guess I'll potpetpotpet again later.

Have a pleasant Wednesday!

:)))

I HEART MOHD SHAKIR.

nuff' said.(for the BLACKBERRRY)

;p

hMM...~~

...be grateful for what I have..~~

...be grateful for what you have..~~

...appreciate people..~~~

...appreciate..~~

stop complaining..~~

stop procrastinating..~~

stop dreaming..hmmh..~~

Oi sambung keje la,bila nak habis!!??!!

Gee I HATE MY JOB.

Hmm...

O MEE GOSH I'm living life to the fullest enjoying running around the house with spatula in one hand and measuring cups in another,baby sitting my nephew and hanging up with my lil bro who's now back in town for good.

But hell I'm beginning to hate my job,seriously-I HATE THEIR DRAMA its really not good for my health!!

Stop stalking him,Ms.Woods!

I normally do not fancy those pretty chineese or Japanese look guys,but somethg about this guy somehow make me craaazee!

I personally met him few years back at a fren's gig and he's..cool.We bumped into him backstaged-he was the emcee and I remembered he said "Wow cant believe u girls are into rocks?Gud to see you and thats a nice top!"(i was there with my BFF Rozana and she was wearing a top with 'I LOVE ROCKER's ASS').

Hmm...

Ga,ga,ga,ga...~