The pride and joy of my Saturday

It is not that difficult!

Make someone smile today.

01. Call an old friend, just to say hi.

02. Hold a door open for a stranger.

03. Invite someone to lunch.
04. Compliment someone on his or her appearance.
05. Ask a coworker for their opinion on a project.
06. Bring cookies to work.
07. Let someone cut in during rush hour traffic.
08. Leave a waitress or waiter a big tip.
09. Tell a cashier to have a nice day.
10. Call your parents.

11. Let someone know you miss them.
12. Treat someone to a movie.
13. Let a person know you really appreciate them.
14. Visit a retirement center.
15. Take a child to the zoo.
16. Fill up your spouse’s car with gas.
17. Surprise someone with a small gift.
18. Leave a thank-you note for the cleaning staff at work.
19. Write a letter to a distant relative.
20. Tell someone you thought about them the other day.

21. Put a dime in a stranger’s parking meter before the time expires.
22. Bake a cake for a neighbor.
23. Send someone flowers to where they work.
24. Invite a friend to tea.
25. Recommend a good book to someone.
26. Donate clothing to a charity.
27. Offer an elderly person a ride to where they need to go.
28. Bag your own groceries at the checkout counter.
29. Give blood.
30. Offer free baby-sitting to a friend who’s really busy or just needs a break.

31. Help your neighbor rake leaves or shovel snow.
32. Offer your seat to someone when there aren’t any left.
33. Help someone with a heavy load.
34. Ask to see a store’s manager and comment on the great service.
35. Give your place in line at the grocery store to someone who has only a few items.
36. Hug someone in your family for no reason.
37. Wave to a child in the car next to you.
38. Send a thank-you note to your doctor.
39. Repeat something nice you heard about someone else.
40. Leave a joke on someone’s answering machine.

41. Be a mentor or coach to someone.
42. Forgive a loan.
43. Fill up the copier machine with paper after you’re done using it.
44. Tell someone you believe in them.
45. Share your umbrella on a rainy day.
46. Welcome new neighbors with flowers or a plant.
47. Offer to watch a friend’s home while they’re away.
48. Ask someone if they need you to pick up anything while you’re out shopping.
49. Ask a child to play a board game, and let them win.
50. Ask an elderly person to tell you about the good old days.

51. During bad weather, plan an indoor picnic with the family.
52. Buy someone a goldfish and bowl.
53. Compliment someone on their cooking and politely ask for a second helping.
54. Dance with someone who hasn’t been asked.
55. Tell someone you mentioned them in your prayers.
56. Give children’s clothes to another family when your kids outgrow them.
57. Deliver extra vegetables from your garden to the whole neighborhood.
58. Call your spouse just to say, I love you.
59. Call someone’s attention to a rainbow or beautiful sunset.
60. Invite someone to go bowling.

61. Figure out someone’s half-birthday by adding 182 days, and surprise them with a cake.
62. Ask someone about their children.
63. Tell someone which quality you like most about them.
64. Brush the snow off of the car next to yours.
65. Return your shopping cart to the front of the store.
66. Encourage someone’s dream, no matter how big or small it is.
67. Pay for a stranger’s cup of coffee without them knowing it.
68. Leave a love letter where your partner will find it.
69. Ask an older person for their advice.
70. Offer to take care of someone’s pet while they’re away.

71. Tell a child you’re proud of them.
72. Visit a sick person, or send them a care package.
73. Join a Big Brother or Sister program.
74. Leave a piece of candy on a coworker’s desk.
75. Bring your child to work with you for the afternoon.
76. Give someone a recording of their favorite music.
77. Email a friend some information about a topic they are especially interested in.
78. Give someone a homemade gift.
79. Write a poem for someone.
80. Bake some cookies for your local fire or police department.

81. Organize a neighborhood cleanup and have a barbecue afterwards.
82. Help a child build a birdhouse or similar project.
83. Check in on an old person, just to see if they’re okay.
84. Ask for the recipe after you eat over at someone’s house.
85. Personally welcome a new employee at work and offer to take them out for lunch.
86. While in a car, ask everyone to buckle up because they are important to you.
87. Let someone else eat the last slice of cake or pizza.
88. Stop and buy a drink from a kid’s lemonade stand.
89. Forgive someone when they apologize.
90. Wave to someone looking for a parking space when you’re about to leave a shopping center.

91. Send a copy of an old photograph to a childhood friend.
92. Leave a pint of your spouse’s favorite flavor of ice cream in the freezer with a bow on it.
93. Do a household chore that is usually done by someone else in the family.
94. Be especially happy for someone when they tell you their good news.
95. Compliment a coworker on their role in a successful project.
96. Give your spouse a spontaneous back rub at the end of the day.
97. Serve someone in your family breakfast in bed.
98. Ask someone if they’ve lost weight.
99. Make a donation to a charity in someone’s honor.
100. Take a child to a ballgame.

Bridezilla on the loose

So its been a while since I went up to my brother's room to use his pc to blog.

I am still struggling how to mobile blog,so lembab.

Been busy with wedding preparations,Im trying not to bore ppl by updating them all here,so if u guys care to see whats happening on lower note,u guys

may go here, click!. :D

Mean while Im excited coz Im gonbe seeing this dude often now days due to the wedding preparations! Weee...!

<3 !

Spare time

My 'diaper bag-look-a-like' Clarins bag with some skin care products given by dad .

'curi' some of my mom's silk flowers then hand sewed them on!

Ok fine,still look a lot like a diaper bag isin it?

Am fine with it I guess.

:D

Hukum Alam?

Girls+Boys

So u've been frens since u were kids,almost like siblings.Its been a while since u guys met,as usual u gave each other 'cheek to cheek' kisses + friendly hugs.

= " Hallo you're engaged.Sampai bila nak hidup social mcm mat salleh nih?Xde agama ke?"

Because we're black.

Oh,la..Bapak U negro ke?So die dari mana?Sudan?Africa?Die kerja ape mase sampai Msia?Yg jual tali pinggang tu ke?

= African Americans not that genuine with that 'Negro' title ok.Same like (no offense) Indians being labeled as 'keling'.

Fat ladies wearing plus size dress.

U pregnant ke?

=*blood cries*

29 years old woman

Hey after your wed kena cepat2 dapat baby tau.U kan dah tua nnt susah nak beranak!

=*flooded with moreeee blood tears*

Long distance relationship

Eee..You x takot die cari org lain ke?U tak tau lagi lelaki camne?Macamana u bleh tahan?

=Hoi bodohhhh!!

//Communication (e.g Skype, webcam, e-mail, telephone etc.), a lot of trust, staying positive and having hope. These are the important things which worked for our long distance relationship!

~Very the x puas hati bridezilla~

New year,crucial year its gonbe I know.

Wow.

So its 5th Jan today.

Wow.

2011 was not bad aite?

For me it was kinna so-so.

Met new genuinely kind hearted frens,lost unworthy frens~Hukum alam.

Engaged.Wedding preparations.Budget!Budgetttt!

Heatlh seems to improve.:D

So its 2012 now,for real.

Someone's getting ready to hijrah to Perak.

Panic attack about can I be a gud wife?

OMG who gonna kemas our house?Mop the floor?!The dirty laundry somemore?

Me ah?

Arrghhhh!Arghhhhh!

Ah.Rilex ar.

So everyone's talking about resolution.

After few years of 'dunt give a damn' about resolutions,this 2012 I happen to have some.

MYvi SE Auto.

So if I happen to lost some KGs to my ideal weight by July 2012,Shakir's gonbe buying me one.In purple.~considered done.

Wedding.

Somethg sweet and simple.Where family,closed frens gonbe involves.

Lotsa smiles and happy tears.

30th June the solemnization date at my parents/mosque.

1st July Bride Reception in JB.

15th Sept Groom reception,Ipoh.

Home sweet home.

To decorate Shakir's apartment in Manjung as how he always imagine it.

Black couch.

Brownish plush rugs.

Green plants.

White frames and crystal jars.

Romantic lighting.

White cozy kitchen.

And an organized wardrobe.

To paint something on the canvas and frame them up for the walls.

Futher my studies.

Law that is.Went tru PJJ's stuffs aredi they seems promising..InsyaAllah.Rite after the wedding.

TheLil_Sweet in Perak.

InsyaAllah.Will continue the legacy in Perak.

Focus mainly in Wedding cakes/cupcakes tower.We're talking about new fresh ideas.Simple but exclusive,Ang moh style wedding cakes.Western's bakers inspired.

Dubai,Oman,Bali.

Honeymoon trip to close the year.

Bad habit to remove from me?

*to stop eating junks.

*to be nicer to mom.

*to do my own laundry.

*to be more organised.

*to mean it when I say 'no'.

*to stop saying swear words

*to stop being such a loser shopaholic

*to be a lesser pain in the *ss complaint queen.

*to be my self,only better.

Bday month

December used to be my fave-est.

But it was blerrgghh.

The cake was yummy tho'.

Tht was the ONLY nice thing happened.

Hope there will be next December.

InsyaAllah.

Me and my toilet issues.

So im a clean-toilet-freak.

My room cud be the messiest in the house but proudly Im saying this,my toilet is CLEAN.

Yah.I spent more money on Harpick,Dettol,Clorox,air freshener,etc,etc to achieve that standard.

And more time of cleaning the toilet bowl n floor instead of 'mandi'.

Why?

I just cant stand dirty toilet.

Yuckkk kuasa tiga.

Cannot stand big time.

I rarely visit the public toilet.

If I really have to,ppl around me will be cursing away as they gotta drop me at some 5 star hotel's lobby for my toilet visit(provided I have Dettol wet tissue in my hand),or we had to go home just for that.

I remember there was few times when we were on holiday,we had to changed hotel just because i dunt like the toilet.

During reservations,I'll normally ask vigorously if there's hand bidet in the toilet near the toilet bowl.If not,no.Im not gonna stay at that hotel.

And how much I know how my room mates (once I stayed in an apartment-hostel provided by Citibank) used hate me soo freaking much whenever I nag or clean the bathroom consistently after they used the bathroom.I cant even see a strand of hair.No.Totally cannot stand.

I warned Shakir he better be prepared.

Loads of stuffs to buy for the toilets only.

And the nags..

:D

Feeling soo fat!No,I am Fat.

I have 2 ex colleague wedding dinner to attend this weekend.

I have nothing to wear.

Dammit.Dammit.

I cant afford last minute shopping now.

Why.Do.I.Have.To.Be.So.Fat.

Damn blarrdy irritating.

Im missing the time where I can go to Manggo and pick up anything in small size.

I often found myself looking at my heels collections in awe wondering how on earth I walk,run,standing more than 8 hours in those shoes at work back then.

Why.Why oh my, why.

This is demoralizing.

I am now holding this Guess dress in M size I bought like 4 years ago that I no longer can fit in-In tears.

No one to be blame except for my self.

Oh screw me.

If only I can fly..

I'll fly to this place and stay there just doing nothing.